Relationships, Health and Sex Education Policy

Relationships, Health and Sex Education Policy

This policy supports the rights respecting principles and is particularly applicable to the following articles:

Article 2
The Convention applies to everyone: whatever their race, religion or abilities, whatever they think or say, whatever type of family they come from.

Article 3
The best interests of the child must be a top priority in all things that affect children.

Article 12
Every child has the right to have a say in all matters affecting them, and to have their views taken seriously.

Article 13
Every child must be free to say what they think and to seek and receive all kinds of information, as long as it is within the law.

Article 19
Governments must do all they can to ensure that children are protected from all forms of violence, abuse, neglect and bad treatment by their parents or anyone else who looks after them.

Article 24
Every child has the right to the best possible health. Governments must work to provide good quality health care, clean water, nutritious food and a clean environment so that children can stay healthy. Richer countries must help poorer countries achieve this.

Article 28
Every child has the right to an education. Primary education must be free. Secondary education must be available for every child. Discipline in schools must respect children’s
dignity. Richer countries must help poorer countries achieve this.

Aims

At Ealing Bridges Federation, we believe that high-quality Relationships, Health and Sex Education (RSE) is central to safeguarding, pupils’ personal development and their long-term emotional, social and physical wellbeing.

The aims of relationships and sex education (RSE) at our federation are to:

  • Provide a clear, coherent framework in which sensitive and complex discussions can take place safely and respectfully
  • Prepare pupils for puberty and the changes of adolescence, giving them an age-appropriate understanding of sexual development, the changing adolescent body and the importance of health and hygiene
  • Help pupils develop feelings of self-respect, confidence and empathy, and cultivate positive characteristics such as kindness and integrity
  • Enable pupils to recognise and build healthy, respectful and safe relationships – in families, friendships, in school and in online spaces
  • Teach pupils the correct, scientific vocabulary to describe themselves and their bodies
  • Equip pupils with the knowledge, skills and language to recognise risk, ask for help, report concerns and protect themselves and others from harm
  • Promote equality, challenge stereotypes and prejudice and foster a culture of respect for all protected characteristics under the Equality Act 2010
  • Create a positive, inclusive culture around sexuality, relationships and family life, where diversity is understood, represented and valued
  • Use RSE as a powerful tool for safeguarding and early help, enabling pupils to make informed decisions and to seek support at the earliest opportunity

Our RSE curriculum is rooted in our federation values and contributes directly to our work on:

  • Personal, Social, Health and Economic (PSHE) education
  • Spiritual, Moral, Social and Cultural (SMSC) development
  • Safeguarding and child protection
  • Mental health and wellbeing
  • Equality, inclusion and anti-racism

Statutory requirements

As a maintained primary school, we must provide relationships education to all pupils under section 34 of the Children and Social Work Act 2017.

We are not required to provide sex education, but we do need to teach the elements of sex education contained in the science curriculum.

In teaching RSE, we must have regard to guidance issued by the secretary of state, as outlined in section 403 of the Education Act 1996.

We also have regard to legal duties set out in:

  • Sections 404 to 407 of the Education Act 1996.
  • Part 6, chapter 1 of the Equality Act 2010
  • The Public Sector Equality Duty (PSED) (as set out in section 149 of the Equality Act 2010). This duty requires public bodies to have due regard to the need to eliminate discrimination, advance equality of opportunity and foster good relations between different people when carrying out their activities

RSE and Health Education are also informed by, and contribute to, our safeguarding responsibilities under:

  • Keeping Children Safe in Education (2024) and subsequent updates
  • Working Together to Safeguard Children (2023)

At the Ealing Bridges Federation, we teach RSE as set out in this policy.

Definition

For the purpose of this policy:

RSE is about the emotional, social and cultural development of pupils, and involves learning about relationships, sexual health, sexuality, healthy lifestyles, diversity and personal identity.

RSE involves a combination of sharing information and exploring issues and values.

RSE is not about the promotion of sexual activity.

  • Relationships Education is learning about:
    • Families and people who care for us
    • Caring friendships
    • Respectful, kind relationships
    • Online relationships and online safety
    • Being safe, including body autonomy, consent and personal boundaries
  • Health Education includes learning about:
    • Mental wellbeing
    • Physical health and fitness
    • Healthy eating
    • Drugs, alcohol and tobacco
    • Health and prevention (including hygiene, sleep, immunisation and dental health)
    • Basic first aid
    • The changing adolescent body (puberty and menstrual wellbeing)
  • Sex Education in this policy refers to the specific, additional content taught in Year 6 that is not part of the statutory science curriculum, namely:
    • Preparing boys and girls for the changes that adolescence brings
    • The scientific process of how a baby is conceived and born

Some aspects of sex education are statutory through the science curriculum (e.g. human life cycles, reproduction). Parents do not have the right to withdraw their child from statutory science content (see section 9).

RSE is about the emotional, social and cultural development of pupils and involves learning about relationships, sexual health, sexuality, healthy lifestyles, diversity and personal identity. It:

  • Combines knowledge with development of skills and positive values
  • Is not about the promotion of sexual activity or any one particular lifestyle

Policy development

The Department for Education and Ofsted have clearly outlined aspects of Relationships Education that are statutory in all primary schools, therefore some recommendations or comments made during the consultation process may not be reflected in the final policy as our school has to ensure we are meeting statutory guidelines.

This policy has been developed in collaboration with staff and parents. The steps taken to review the policy are as follows.

Review – a member of school staff/members of the Relationships Education working party looked through the existing Relationships Education policy as well as local and national guidance for Relationships Education. The working party then reviewed the Relationships Education policy reflecting any advice and changes at local and national level.

Staff consultation –Staff were consulted via a staff meeting of the changes to education policy and also consulted regarding the support needed to implement the new curriculum. Also, all staff were sent the draft policy in advance of the staff meeting and were then invited to comment on the policy and make suggestions/amendments.

Parent engagement – Parents were engaged through workshops with members of the working party and Ealing PSHE team. Throughout the development of the new policy and curriculum, parents were invited to attend workshops to inform them of changes and discuss viewpoints and issues. Parents were given the opportunity to look through the policy, schemes of work and offer comments/suggestions. This was through Virtual sessions.

Pupil consultation – We consulted with pupil via the 2019 Health Related Behaviour Survey. The results of this survey were then used to inform the policy and inform the delivery of RSE in our school.

Governor consultation – Governors were consulted on this policy via a governor meeting and as part of the working party. All governors were sent the draft policy in advance of a committee meeting and were then invited to comment on the policy and make suggestions/amendments.

Ratification – once amendments were made, the policy was shared with governors and ratified. The policy was then ratified by the governing body.

 

Curriculum

Our RSE curriculum is set out as per Appendices 1 and 2, but we may need to adapt it as and when necessary. We may adapt the curriculum over time in response to pupil need, local priorities or updated statutory guidance, but any core changes will be shared with parents and carers in advance.

We have developed the curriculum in consultation with parents and carers, pupils and staff, and taking into account the age, developmental stage, needs (such as cultural and religious needs) and feelings of our pupils. If pupils ask questions outside the scope of this policy, teachers will respond in an appropriate manner so that pupils are fully informed and don’t seek answers online.

We will share all curriculum materials with parents and carers on request.

Core curriculum and resources

At Ealing Bridges Federation:

  • RSE and PSHE are taught using the Ealing PSHE scheme of work and the Jigsaw programme, which provide a spiral curriculum from Reception to Year 6.
  • Biological aspects of human growth and reproduction are taught within the science curriculum in line with the National Curriculum.
  • Lessons relating to mental health, safety, friendships, bullying and online behaviour are embedded throughout the year as part of PSHE and safeguarding.
  • RSE content is revisited and built upon progressively, so pupils deepen and extend their understanding as they move through the school.

Sequencing and coherence

The curriculum is carefully sequenced to ensure that:

  • Core knowledge is broken into manageable units
  • Concepts such as consent, personal boundaries and respect are introduced in age-appropriate ways in EYFS/KS1 and are revisited in increasing depth across KS2
  • Puberty is introduced in Year 4 and consolidated in Years 5 and 6, to ensure that pupils are prepared for changes before they occur
  • Sex education in Year 6 is set within a broader framework of healthy relationships, consent, safety and respect


Inclusivity and equality

Our curriculum:

  • Reflects and values a wide range of family structures (for example: single-parent families, parents who are married or in civil partnerships, families headed by grandparents, adoptive and foster families, families with LGBT+ parents, kinship carers and others)
  • Explicitly challenges stereotypes and prejudice relating to gender, gender identity, sexuality, disability, race, religion, socio-economic status and other protected characteristics
  • Ensures pupils see themselves and their communities represented positively and accurately
  • Teaches pupils that all people are equally deserving of respect, protection and opportunities
  • We will share RSE and Health Education curriculum materials with parents and carers on request and signpost content on our school websites.

Delivery of RSE

RSE is taught within the personal, social, health and economic (PSHE) education curriculum, complemented and reinforced by:

  • Science
  • Computing (including online safety)
  • Religious Education (RE)
  • Safeguarding, assemblies and themed days/weeks (e.g. Anti-Bullying Week, Online Safety events, Mental Health awareness).

Biological aspects of RSE are taught within the science curriculum, and other aspects are included in religious education (RE).

The school will make sure that:

  • Core knowledge is sectioned into units of manageable size
  • The required content is communicated to pupils clearly, in a carefully sequenced way and within a planned scheme of work
  • Teaching includes sufficient and well-chosen opportunities and contexts for pupils to embed new knowledge, so that it can be used confidently in real-life situations

Relationships education focuses on teaching the fundamental building blocks and characteristics of positive relationships including:

  • Families and people who care for me
  • Caring friendships
  • Respectful, kind relationships
  • Online safety and awareness
  • Being safe

Primary sex education will focus on:

  • Preparing boys and girls for the changes that adolescence brings
  • How a baby is conceived and born

Throughout each year group we will use appropriate material to assist learning, such as:

  • Diagrams
  • Videos
  • Books
  • Games
  • Discussions and practical activities

Teachers will make sure that all pupils’ views are listened to and will encourage them to ask questions and engage in discussion. Teachers will answer questions sensitively, honestly and appropriately for the age of the pupils.

The programme will be designed to focus on boys as much as girls, and activities will be planned to make sure both are actively involved.

The school will make sure that all teaching and materials are appropriate for the ages and needs of the pupils including any additional needs, such as special educational needs and disabilities (SEND).

At all points of delivery of the curriculum, the school will consult parents and carers, and their views will be valued. What will be taught and how will be planned in conjunction with parents and carers.

For more information about our RSE curriculum, see Appendices 1 and 2.

We may amend our curriculum content to respond to the needs and context of our pupils, to discuss issues affecting them in an age-appropriate manner. We will inform parents and carers of any deviation from our published policy in advance, and share any relevant materials on request.

These areas of learning are taught within the context of family life, taking care to make sure that there is no stigmatisation of children based on their home circumstances (i.e. families can include single-parent families, same-sex parents, families headed by grandparents, adoptive parents and foster parents among other structures), along with reflecting sensitively that some children may have a different structure of support around them (for example, looked-after children, young carers or kinship carers).

Across our school, we will also be mindful of the law and legal requirements, taking care not to condone or encourage illegal activity, such as violent action against people, criminal damage to property or hate crime.

Parents’ right to withdraw

Parents/carers do not have the right to withdraw their child from relationships education.

  • Statutory Relationships Education
  • Statutory Health Education content, including puberty and menstrual wellbeing
  • Statutory elements of the science curriculum (e.g. human life cycles, reproduction in science)

Parents and carers do have the right to request that their child is withdrawn from the non-statutory elements of sex education within RSE, which at Ealing Bridges Federation are taught in Year 6 and cover:

  • Conception and how a baby is conceived and born (beyond what is covered in science)

Requests for withdrawal should:

  • Be made in writing, using the form in Appendix 3, and
  • Be addressed to the Headteacher

Before granting a request, the Headteacher will:

  • Meet with the parent/carer to discuss the request and ensure they understand the aims, content and context of the lessons
  • Explain the potential impact of withdrawal, including:
    • Gaps in understanding about human reproduction and conception
    • The likelihood that pupils may hear information from peers in less accurate or supportive contexts
  • Discuss any concerns or questions parents and carers may have

In the event of withdrawal:

  • The pupil will remain in school and will be provided with appropriate, supervised alternative work for the duration of specific sex education lessons
  • A record of the request and the outcome will be kept on the pupil’s file

If a parent or carer withdraws their child from sex education lessons, we cannot guarantee that the child will not hear about lesson content from peers (e.g. on the playground or outside school). By withdrawing pupils from these lessons, there is a risk that they may seek information from unreliable or inappropriate sources (e.g. older peers, the internet), which may be inaccurate or unsafe.

Alternative schoolwork will be given to pupils who are withdrawn from sex education.

Full Policy

Approved by
Governing Body on 25th November 2025

Last reviewed on:
November 2025

Next review due by:
November 2026

Part of Ealing Bridges Federation